Word of the Day: INGRATIATE
To charm or kowtow
ingratiate (verb) - to establish oneself in another’s favor or good graces; to flatter [in-grey-shee-eyt]
BREAKDOWN: IN- (in) + GRAT- (favor, thanks) + -IATE (to make or do)
ingratiating means attempting or adopted to flatter oneself into another’s favor; sycophantic
ingratiation is a strategic, deliberate attempt to become more likable or attractive to another
See also: gratifying
“Somewhere around the fifth or seventh grade I figured out that I could ingratiate myself to people by making them laugh. Essentially, I was just trying to make them like me. But after a while it became part of my identity.” —Tina Fey



