conciliatory (adj) - compromising; attempting to find agreement or meet on common ground [kuhn-sil-ee-uh-tohr-ee]
BREAKDOWN: CONCIL- (meeting) + -IATE (to make) + -TORY (relating to)
to conciliate means to overcome hostility or avert anger; to win over, placate, or pacify
conciliation is the act or process of mediating a dispute or resolving a complaint
“Peace is not unity in similarity but unity in diversity, in the comparison and conciliation of differences.” —Mikhail Gorbachev